.. when you love someone..

Snapshot_008How do you know when someone loves you? Is it because they said ” I love you” or is it in the way the are with you that speaks volumes to the love they have for you. I, say ‘I love you” to everyone I love, every time I leave them. I want to hear it from them, as much as I want to say it. Not everyone is comfortable enough to do that. My children, like me, have grown up saying it and are happy to give a hug as an added bonus! My boyfriend, wasn’t always as comfortable with saying it, and in fact is much better at “showing’ me how much he loves me. Not to say he doesn’t “say” the magical words, he does and usually after I have said it. Yet I know, with all my fiber of being, he loves me more then life itself. He is my best friend. He is the one that I think of first and last in my day and when I see a random object I am often reminded of him and I and times together. Each week, he wants me to hear a new song that expresses his love for me. Usually prefaces it with ” this is for you Gezza, now listen carefully”.

Snapshot_007Every morning of every day I wake up to a personal message, written by him. He takes the time each and every day to let me know, I’m important enough to write a message to no matter how busy his day may be. Random subjects and 99.9 percent of the time letting me know he enjoyed my company this weekend. When I have a doctor’s appointment, he will wish me luck in the morning and the next message he asks what did the doctor say and how am I? If a family member is ill, or having a crisis of any kind, he always remembers and follows up on how things are going.  And always, always, leaves me with a quick witted joke or comment to make me smile. When I cry, he lets me, unless I start to talk while crying and then he asks me to stop. I asked why once, why he had a hard time if I cried, he said “I can’t take you hurting, when you hurt, I hurt” Unfortunately, I cry for all occasions LOL. Happy or sad, whatever the emotion, it doesn’t not matter. I’m a crier. How I really know I am loved is this. If I express a need, he will listen and even bring it up a week later and tell me his thoughts about it. Then another week later, I can see his efforts to try to fulfill my request. It fills my soul to its core, when he truly trys to make me happy with very little effort nor a complaint and will actually say “I’m sorry I missed it too” When you love someone, it’s not just the words that communicate love, it’s in the little things that are done each and every day, for 7 years and never once complain or a harsh word to each other. Respect in the ‘us” in “our relationship” rather me and you coming first. It’s beautiful and I am a very lucky woman. I love you Andy…

Until next time…

the details

SERENITY STYLE.-HIPSTER FRAME RARE – new items for the next round of the Gacha Mania that start the 15th
Serenity Style.– Old Train Bench
Serenity Style- My sweet bear Brown
Serenity Style– My sweet bear Blue
Serenity Style- BulbBee RED – Miyagawacho Gacha Fair
Serenity Style- BulbBee RARE1 – Miyagawacho Gacha Fair
Serenity Style- Old Luggage
*Second Spaces* craft room – stamps
AF Ruffled Rug – March Arcade
[*Art Dummy!] summertide. (chair, vintage – soft green)
AF Annan Bed w/ Curtains
AF Vintage Camera w/ Tripod- June Arcade
Serenity Style- BulbBee RARE2Miyagawacho Gacha Fair
Serenity Style- BulbBee BLUEMiyagawacho Gacha Fair
Serenity Style-Vintage Travel Gatcha RARE – exclusive bench with a set of old suitcase to decor gatcha items.
Trompe Loeil – Ines Ottoman Natural PG
MudHoney Red Flower in vase
Second Spaces – Life’s a Bench – full set neutral – last week FLF
8f8 – 16. Our Secret Hideout – Arts ‘n’ Crafts
AF Plaid Luggage Bag June Arcade
Serenity Style– Retro Frames – LIMITED TIME only for 1L Customers can get it inworld just till next 24th on August

Home by L2 Studio – Padre Island House


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